Get Your Ex Back

The Real Deal Behind Getting Your Ex Back

get_your_ex_back1At one time, I was JUST LIKE YOU! I was in love with a woman that I thought was the most magnificent person in the world! She was the peanut butter to my jelly, the cheese to my ham, the one and only!  I was madly in love and thought we would be together forever.

The Bombshell

One day, I came home from work as usual, looking forward to our quiet evening together, and she dropped the bombshell on me. She told me that we weren’t working out and it would probably be best if we take a break. Needless to say, I was quite confused so I did what many people do when they get dumped:

  • I begged for her to give me another chance

     

  • I told her, over and over again, just how much I loved her and couldn’t live without her

     

  • I called her constantly, trying to convince her that we were just meant to be together

     

  • I sent her text messages relentlessly

     

  • I made attempts to “try to be friends” with her because I thought I would eventually make her see how great I was and that we were destined to be together

After all of that, after many months of ambushing my efforts with mistake after mistake, she finally did what I feared the most: 

She stopped taking my calls, replying to my text messages and emails, and just basically went on with her life without ever contacting me again. That was about 10 years ago. 

I still think about her to this day and think of how much that experience has affected me and my life. I owe her a great deal of thanks for shutting me out. The humilliation I felt from that inspired me to learn. I was desperate to learn how to Get Your Ex Back so that, if this scenario ever played out again, I would never make those same mistakes.

As history tends to do, about 6 years later, it was repeating itself. A woman I had fallen in love with was doing the same exact thing. She was tearing my heart out and stomping on it by telling me that we just were not meant to be. I thought, “OH NO”!!!!!!!!!!” I’m sure you can imagine.

Experience And Education Rule!

However, this time I was much more prepared in how I was going to handle this situation. I had taken the time, because of my previous experience, to learn all I could about how to handle getting dumped and how to get your ex back. It was a real eye-opener because I had learned that EVERYTHING I was doing with my first ex was completely and totally WRONG!!!

Instead of getting her back, I was pushing her further and further away, and I had NO IDEA at the time. Anyways, this time, as soon as my girlfriend told me that she thought we needed to take some time apart and “evaluate the relationship”, I did something that was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I AGREED with her. I told her that it probably wouldn’t be a bad idea to spend some time apart. Told her I loved her and we parted ways. It’s pretty funny that, 30 minutes after I left, she was blowing up my cell, telling me how sorry she was, she wished she was more certain of our future and so on. I simply agreed with everything she said. And it hurt like hell to do it because I wasn’t sure if this strategy was going to pay off.

getting_back_togetherAnyway, I am not going to get into the details of the complete strategy I used to get her back but, I will tell you that she came back to me about 3 weeks later, begging me to take her back. It was amazing how well this worked!!  We were together for another 3 years and, unfortunately, I was the one that wanted to end the relationship. Let me tell you, although it’s still hard, it is MUCH easier being the dumper as opposed to the dumpee!

I just have to say this: I know there are a lot of e-books out there on “How To Get Your Ex Back” but I can tell you, from my own personal experience, none could be as easy to follow as “Pull Your Ex Back“. I am not going to try to sell you on it because I don’t have the time to try to pitch someone’s product but, being perfectly honest, it was the strategy in that book that got my ex back for me in 3 weeks.

I am not going to try to do a sale’s job for it but I will be nice enough to provide you with the link so you can check it out. I strongly recommend it. If you don’t get Pull Your Ex Back, make sure you DO get one of those Get Your Ex Back e-books because you NEED a plan. A strategy that you can follow.

When your heart is broken, you can do some pretty stupid things, and at a time like that you NEED someone telling you what to do, how to act, and even what to say in some cases. Again, here is the link for the strategy that was VERY effective for me. It helped me so maybe it can help you get your ex back too. Good Luck!